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“Less Talking, More Fucking” or LTMF, for Short
If anyone says this to you during sex, tell them to get out of your bed!
No one should ever hear this when they are in the middle of making love, having sex, or even Fucking, if that’s what you call it. My biggest regret is that when I heard it, I thought I was the one at fault. More than 10 years later, I am here to tell you I was not at fault, and if you ever have the misfortune to hear it, it’s not your fault either! Talking, speaking, or sharing, should never be restricted, prohibited, or denigrated when you are in the midst of an intimate moment, and if your partner attempts to shut you down, act swiftly. Whatever is going on at the moment, remove yourself and do one of two things, most likely the first: 1) show them the door and ask them to close it behind them, or 2) initiate even more talking — “let’s have a chat about what you just said (or did).”
A person who says LTMF does NOT have your best interests at heart and is not interested in you as a person. Even if it’s a hook-up, this attitude prevents you from freely engaging in the moment, and is designed to make you feel “less than” so the other person can feel “more than” and keep their ego intact. The occasion upon which I heard “Michelle, LTMF!” is one of my three “regrettable” sexual encounters. The other party was having a…
